What if there was a way to 100% guarantee that you will find true love?
What if you already know how to meet you true love and you have probably used this same system about 100s of time in your own life…
Approach dating like shopping!
I believe that finding true love is like finding the perfect dress.
Sometimes finding the perfect dress, like the perfect relationship, takes time and it is important to be open minded, try new things, and never stop until you find the style and fit that is perfect for you.
Here is another reason why approaching dating like shopping will guarantee you more dating success.When are you dating, you will probably end up meeting a lot of different types of men.
Just like when you are shopping you may try on a lot of different outfits.
And after years of experience shopping, you start to know what style of jeans you like and what style dress you feel comfortable wearing.
But the real fashionistas experiment with many different styles and looks.
So here is the thing. It doesn’t hurt to take a second look at someone new. Exchanging a few emails, having a phone conversation even going out on a date will never hurt you.
One client in my Dating for True Love Intensive was what I call “stuck on a type”. She liked a particular type of man. The super masculine, ultra successful entrepreneur who was, well to put it nicely, a bit arrogant. So when a guy with an above average career, contacted her she felt a bit disappointed. Even though he was good looking, active and they had a lot of common interests. She emailed me asking if she should she even bother to email him back?
Of course she should email him back.
It’s a only an email, not a marriage proposal! In fact, if that goes well and he is not serial killer, she should probably even have a conversation with him!
Do you agonize over a decision to try on a pair of jeans? They may not fit. So what? You put them back and find a new pair.
Don’t take dating so seriously.
Date light! Have fun, experiment with different types of people. Be open minded.
Dating is all about learning who you like and what qualities work for you.
One of my original clients, Cheryl, got married at 38 and had her first child at 40. Her type of man was always the very good looking, dark, mysterious and sexy men. Well it turned out mysterious really meant major issues.
The man she married is nothing at all like her type. And she was not his type. He always dated the natural, no make-up kind of girl. He was so shocked that this gorgeous sexy blonde was interested in him. And he turned out to be far sexy and they had more chemistry than she ever had with any of her “mysterious exes”. They have an amazing marriage, great communication, are best friends, totally in love and in appreciation for each other.
Lisa Sasevich, The Queen of Speak to Sell, says that when a woman approaches her saying, I met a guy and he’s not who you’d think I would date… Lisa would say “Your going to get married!”.
Remember, every date is opportunity to meet someone new.
Every date is learning experience.
Sometimes it can be easy to be a little critical of the people you meet.
Let’s face it! You don’t want to settle. You are a busy woman and you don’t want to waste your time.
But think about the times when you have been nervous, maybe said something that came out wrong, aren’t you a great catch don’t you want a second chance?
Give others the benefit of the doubt the way you would want someone to give you the benefit of the doubt.
And don’t be afraid to try on a different style… you might like it! You may even marry it!